If you do not have the kind of success you want, you are likely to encounter self-destructive behavior. Also, if you engage in these types of behaviors it is important that you see what you are doing and then change.
Playing the Waiting Game
If you ever feel like saying, “I’ll do that where xyz” stop right now. “If I lose weight I will go for a walk.” “When I finish this client’s work I will write my novel.” Everything makes sense but it is a waiting game that will never end. If you don’t take action now, nothing will happen.
You hang with the wrong people
Yes, even in your old age, you can still choose the wrong friends. If you often find yourself arguing with your friends’ values and goals in life, or you find yourself apologizing for other people’s behavior, you are simply making excuses to avoid an unpleasant conclusion. You ate them with your friends.
Saying: “I will never …”
Fill in the blanks with what you have never said, done or felt. The fact is, if you do not believe that you will succeed in your business, or you will lose that extra weight, you will probably not succeed. You need to think about the success you want to achieve in order to make it happen. If all you see is bad, that’s all you’ll get.
I Don’t Want To Do It “On Myself” Alone
Eventually we are all alone. If you wait for everyone to be on the same page as you, do not miss the wonderful new adventure. Whether you’re starting a business, watching a movie, or trying out a new restaurant, you can do it yourself without someone else doing it for you.
You Think You Are Not As “Wise” As …
Someone will always be smarter, more beautiful, or something better than you. By saying you are nothing, you will have a hard time breaking the box you put yourself in. Forget who you think you are, and do what you want to do. There is no need for perfection.
You are hiding your feelings
When someone asks you a question about your feelings, simply say “I’m fine” and leave it at that – even if you’re not feeling well. Did you know that you can get a hold of it if you avoid it and don’t talk about it? You must rename it in order to change it.
My Client Needs Me
Everyone can be changed. If you find yourself working with someone because you think he needs you, or not, you are really wasting your time. A client that doesn’t suit you will dump you when they find someone with them. Don’t be kind to anyone unless you really want to.
You do not have a Support Program
Support can come in a variety of forms, from human support to electronic support. If you set up a good plan to help you stick to your schedule (whether for work or for fun) and get help when you need it, you will be much more effective than not doing that.
Life can be frustrating and sometimes frustrating. So how do some people seem to prosper and achieve their goals and dreams while others fight? The answer is thoughts.
